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Janice B

Monday, September 9, 2013

Chronicles of Janice B. Life from the “A” – No the Other “A” – Asheville Strongholds


A good definition for stronghold is a major center or area of predominance.  I heard a sermon this past Sunday regarding strongholds.  The pastor distinguished between an environment and a
stronghold.  The pastor stated that you could change your environment, as it is not permanent.  With some tweaks you can create a new environment.  However, as the definition stated, and the pastor agreed that a stronghold is an entirely different beast.   A stronghold is such that an area of predominance something that is not easily broken.  You have to bust out of a stronghold.  You have to escape it as soon as possible.  You have to consult with a higher power to overcome your stronghold.  And you have to do something drastic to get away from particular strongholds.
The pastor told a story about how he actually moved his family out of a poor neighborhood and moved to a more affluent neighborhood because everyone in the old neighborhood had a poverty mentality.  He stated that the mentality of that neighborhood was so detrimental to those that lived there and anyone who would move in there that no one could break that stronghold.  Negativity breeds negativity.  Once negativity gets a deep hold of the person it is hard to shake it
I guess in a sense I did the same as the pastor. I moved from Atlanta to Asheville to break my own personal stronghold of always thinking that I needed a “professional” job and that my passion for writing should only remain a passion. I believed that I could only make money by working jobs that I don’t like i.e. “professional” jobs.  It’s that old fashion mentality that you must get a job, stay there for 30 years and then retire with a gold watch.  The only problem with that is, you’re left empty.  You wondered where your life went and why you let it slip away.
Since moving, I have surrounded myself with like-minded people who are artist, writers, and educators.  They are passionate about their craft.  It is exciting to come alive again.  Just surrounding myself with like-minded people is helping me to grow.  I would suggest that anyone who is struggling with a job they don’t like or dancing around a passion to stop and think if your life would be better with that horrible job or without following your passion.  I assure you that if you don’t follow your true passion and be true to your authentic self you are shortchanging your life.  Here’s a hint, when you are not living your authentic life you WILL be miserable.  You will remain miserable until you get back to you!
Do yourself a favor.  Follow your heart.  Do what you love to do.  You will thank yourself later when you are 80 years old.  No regrets right!?
Enjoy the Journey! 
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