Welcome to My Blog

Welcome to my Blog. This is a blog for women to help other women understand the intricacies of our relationships with each other and how to over come the obstacles we face today. So please feel free to chime in with your stories, antidotes, questions, issues and solutions! Here every opinion counts!

Janice B

Thursday, November 28, 2013

Putting Your Money Where Your Mouth Is “Blessed”


Am I my Sister’s Keeper
Putting Your Money Where Your Mouth Is
“Blessed”
November 28, 2013

This year I blogged about finding your authentic self and what it would mean for your life.  I shared my journey, my fears, and my joys.  Self-exploration can leave you raw and uncertain.  It is necessary however.  YOU need to know what makes YOU tick.  You need to find out what you are made of so when the hard times hit you will be ready.  In contrast when good times come you will recognize the moment and celebrate it and celebrate you! Yes self-exploration is a good thing!  (wink)
So all of my self-exploration brought me to this point.  I have to admit that I still have a long way to go.  In October I got still.  I had to ask God what it was that He wanted me to do.  You know, now I truly know why people don’t really get still and seek God.  He tells you what you don’t want to hear.  If you stop to think about it, you know what God’s going to tell you before he tells you.  Truly following what God has for you is scary.  You feel that you are not ready for it.  You may even think that you know what’s best for your life and God got it all wrong.  I am here to tell you let go of that fear and go with God.
So like I said I got still.  I prayed, meditated, fasted and even did some Yoga! I heard from God.  It was a simple request but you know me.  I said really God, really! You know what he told me?  He told me to go home meaning Nebraska.  What?!  I said.  I spent the better part of my adult life running from Nebraska as fast as I could.  He said it was time to stop running and my spirit couldn’t agree more. It was time for me to go home, enrich myself in my family and the Midwestern values I grew up with.  It was time to heal old wounds and let the past stay in the past.  It was time to help my family get to the next level while I practiced being authentic to myself!
So after being in Asheville for three months I yet again packed my bags, my household and my dog and set out on yet another journey.  All I had was minimal savings and determination.  My family helped me drive to U-haul truck home and provided me a place to stay.  Within a week and a half I had a job offer and more coming in.  I have rekindled my relationships with my parents and each of my siblings. I get a kick and a joy out of all of my nieces and nephews!  I even went back to my old church family and love every minute of it! I’m even writing better!
When you follow God’s direction for your life everything will fall into place.  It may not be exactly the way you want it but it will be the best way because it’s God’s way!  So today I give thanks to God for allowing me a wonderful Journey, for my family who is always there for me, and my family of friends who always have an encouraging word for me.  Look at what you have this holiday season and give thanks.  Remember to practice being your authentic self and you will be just fine!
Next year’s blog will be all about putting my money where my mouth is. I will be living and being my authentic self. I call myself an author and that’s what I will be.  I am excited about next year and what God has for me and you should be too!  See you in 2014!
Enjoy the Journey!
Check out my books at www.janicebrantle.com.  Also coming in 2014 my 3rd book “Angel’s War”.

Friday, October 4, 2013

Are you happy?

Chronicles of Janice B.
Life from the “A” – No the Other “A” – Asheville
Are you happy?
                  I read the following quote the other day:
                  “When we forget ourselves in trying to add to the welfare of others, happiness comes to                   us without our asking” Eknath Easwaran
This made me re-think what happiness is to me.  I use to believe happiness was getting my way or if something was going right for me I would be happy.  Or if everything was in alignment and nothing bad happened, I would be happy.  But like the quote above true happiness is in the service of others.  Things can’t make you happy.  People can’t make you happy.  You are the only one that can make you happy and that comes from your ability to get out of yourself and see and help others. 
I did a little experiment the other day and you can try this also.  I woke up and the very first thing out of my mouth was “This is going to be a good day.  Something good is going to happen to me.  I have the Favor of the Lord upon me!” All that day I had a wonderful experience.  Nothing brought me down.  Everyone I spoke to got a happy Janice and in return they responded with happiness and good cheer.  I had favor in the little things like a good parking spot and a hug from a happy customer!  You know I have to admit, I didn’t believe that you could declare that your day would be wonderful and it would actually be wonderful. Now I am a believer.  I now believe that I definitely am the captain of my fate.  What I think about I bring about.  So the next time you are down and depressed change your attitude to the positive.  The next time you experience something bad cancel it out and repeat positive affirmations.  I don’t know about you, but I’m tired of walking around sad and depressed thinking that nothing good is going to happen and that the world owes me.  The world doesn’t owe me anything.  I have everything within me to become successful, prosperous, and happy and so do you.
So from this day forward make a conscious decision to declare happiness.  Spread positivity and watch goodness, happiness, and prosperity follow you all the days of your life.  I know I have made that decision and I haven’t had a bad day yet!
Make sure you spread the word and check out my books at www.janicebrantle.com!
Enjoy the journey!